

The Wedding
The day started with our preparation for a 1000am pickup at our hotel. We were ready to go by then but i warned the team….this is Africa. We felt a little different in that we would be having a wedding and Doug was leading it so we sort of had to be somewhat ready. Pickup time: 1155am. And we were off…….
On travel to the school where the wedding would take place we noticed another blessing. The district commissioners had been true to their promise and the road was so much improved to get to Parental Care School Mbarara. Yipeee. We got to the school and the church (Emmy’s main church) and quickly realized they have located across the street from the school to the new land we acquired in December 2008. We immediately noticed a huge crowd of wedding parties. Ashley and Kristin were quick on the pickup that not one of them had the same colors as the rest.

The team was impressed with the tarped church structure and its construction often withstanding the breeze that would occasionally come. Perfect weather for a wedding. After quite the procession, each bridal party was under the big top and was ready for the big occasion. Our ladies noticed the seriousness of the brides, it was quite striking. Driver Emmy’s wife Mary was full of smiles though, a far cry from the state we saw her in November at the clinic very ill from malaria all week.
Pastor Doug gave some very timely , well chosen words to the couples, charging them with their responsibilities and then going through a delicate vow procedure where he spoke, waited for the translation, then for the participants to repeat and then continue again. It was a job well done….not easy to say the least. 13 couples all up front with the “Ugandan paparazzi” so crowded up front the rest of us special guests up front could hardly see anything. Each couple had a best man and a matron dressed in similar fashion. Total attendance for the wedding was around 500, coming and going at different parts of the service. In attendence were some special guests. Emmy’s mentor (Pastor James) who encouraged him to go in to the ministry, along with a couple working with YWAM, Roger and Julie , who at the age of 75 and 67 are still trekking through Africa encouraging people like Emmy. They are a special couple in that they purchased the land that the school now sits on. It was such a joy to meet them. God spoke to me and told me that by seeing such a couple like this we have much more time to work here in Uganda than i thought. Maybe another 3 decades if we are blessed unless He returns sooner. I can’t imagine what He might accomplish in such a time period. Speaking of finishing……the ceremony finished at 330pm. Monica and I were blessed to stand with Pastor Emmy and Supermom as my best man and her matron with these 12 African couples, joining some in their first official wedding ceremony and others for their actual wedding day. As Jay summed up well, “we will never experience something like this again. ”

We made it back to the hotel, had a quick break, took some pictures at our hotel and then we were off to the soccer stadium. Before we made it there, car #2 with Jay, Ashley, Kristin, and Doug made a slight detour. They describe their taxi driver pulling over on the side of the road, motioning to someone in one of the stores, speaking 5 words or so and the shopkeeper comes back with a big plastic bag. He rummages through a few seconds and pulls out a pair of shoes for the wedding. The driver gives the storekeeper a 50cent piece and his old flip flops, takes his “new” pair with a bit more tread on the tire and actually collects some change from the storekeeper.
The Reception
We all made it to the soccer stadium. Oh my goodness, I knew there was going to be a lot of people but this was amazing. Each couple was given around 100 invitations to send out and then Emmy also made it an evangelistic outreach opportunity with the result being 2000+ Ugandans all arranged in tents in a square pattern on the soccer field covering the perimeter leaving the center of the field open. As Doug said, “there were a lot of plastic chairs there.”

As some of you know I gave the game of soccer my first two decades of my life and thoroughly loved the sacrifice, commitment, leadership development and success that He allowed me to experience with many great teammates. The Lord told me to give all the accomplishments and scholarships up …..and be a doctor. So i did. It was tough not playing in college and watching my teammates around the country enjoy those years. However, I am grateful. He has allowed me to return to “the pitch” with a greater purpose. I am so blessed. His ways are so much greater than our own! Iknew yesterday with certainty that i had made the right decision. Thank you Lord for bringing me back to this field i oh so love. This experience was worth much more than i ever can describe…….So let me try.
Upon entry to the gated area we were struck by presence of the orphans. How all of them made it from school over here before us was amazing. Jay and Ashley made a quick b line over to them and began to greet them. I wanted to stay with them but Emmy was literally dragging us away trying to get us to join the other couples to enter the field by pulling up the rear.
Each wedding couple made the diagonal like procession across the field. I had a little fun with this march. We were led by the Nnyanzi’s two boys, Roger and Daniel as Emmy and Sarah followed behind us.

They began by letting each couple cut the ribbon to the entryway. The scissors were full size compared to the preschool pair we had in the fall for the school ribbon ceremony. We are making progress here at PCM.

We sat at the far corner and watched the festivities. Lots of entertainment and dancing from the 2 hosts with microphones and PA system. We had planned on building a stage but Emmy decided to scrap those plans and instead leave it open. It was the right decision. The funds were used to buy even more cakes for the reception. There must have been 50 or so cakes arranged on pie trees with 4-5 in front of every couple. Driver Emmy had real live sparklers on his cake. Not too far off behind the stadium a real fire broke out . Funny how no one seemed to notice . All the action was on the field. Next we got to cut the cake . I managed to “saw through the icing” and get the job done this time as opposed to the fall when i broke the knife. We fed each other a piece and i think i nearly choked my bride with the piece i chose for her. The gingerbread like cake was a bit firm but i thought tasty. Mr Cha got up in front of the crowd with the host Vincent and he asked 2 questions: “What do you think of this place and experience. My Cha’s response was brief yet profound……”God is here.” Then the host asked him what he will tell others in America about this experience, and Mr Cha came through with another great answer….”God was there.” 6 words. They said so much.
We then got to go around and serve the guests each a small 1 inch square of cake. Unbelievable gratefulness for this tasty little morsel. The crowd so well attired in suits and dresses never reached a single hand toward my plate. Amazing, not a single crumb was dropped by them. The exception of course was Mr Cha, who “accidently” had his piece hit the ground.
Then the host called out Kristin. She was brought forth and the host made mention she was not married. She was single. Then the host said in dowry fashion, “how many cows are you worth?” Kristin was unable to answer but Jay gave the loudest response ”100″ which brought smiles and laughs to many.

The festivities went on and on until there was no light, and then it was time to go. I told Emmy that we were proud of his organizing ability and the chance to partner with him to do something special for Mbarara. The Lord was honored on this day in a very unique way.

Monica and I made it back to our room about 745pm. We loked down at our feet and as we were about to enter our hotel room we noticed something. We were covered in dirt and dust nearly completely. My black suit and her white dress were both nearly brown. Our exposed skin was brown and i think if you could have seen inside our hearts they might have been brown too. It’s a beautiful color. We have found a real purpose for the rest of our lives and stand fully committed to His calling.

Mukama Asiimwe. Praise the Lord.
COMMENTS
Foy Forehand
foyii@suddenlink.net | 74.192.113.234
Congrats on the Wedding! The description was marvelous and the pictures beautiful. God was glorified!
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/26 at 8:31 PM
2009/07/26
Mia Forehand
miatcl@suddenlink.net | 74.192.113.234
WOW! What an amazing experience for all of you. Mark, thank you so much for taking the time to write home to share details of the the day’s events and your thoughts with us. I wept as I read your blog entry! I didn’t know it was possible to feel the presence of the Lord across cyberspace and time zones…until tonight. The joy of the Lord was written all over your faces; you were literally beaming with the presence of the Holy Spirit and all of us reading the blog could actually see that in the pictures. Thanks for sharing the blessing of your dirty shoes and dusty, brown skin with us! We love you guys and are holding you up in prayer as you disciple, minister to, and love on the precious people of Uganda. Please know that with every minute you spend writing a blog entry and downloading pictures, we are being blessed by your obedience to God’s calling on your lives
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/26 at 9:12 PM
2009/07/26
Daniel ‘Ambush’ Wallace
danielw@gulllake.org | 66.222.77.26
Just printed out the blog for today! The pictures are great! Look forward to reading it before bed. You are being prayed for!
Ambush
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/26 at 9:33 PM
2009/07/26
Brian
bboat777@Hotmail.com | 64.139.234.56
The joy of Christ is seen in all of your faces in the pictures of the wedding, and Bub if I didn’t know better I’d say writing was your true calling! However, I do know better. Being submissive to the Spirit is your calling my brother, and I’m proud of you. It shines through in your writing and in all that you are doing. Thanks for sharing all that our Father is doing among His people in Uganda. The joy that He promised us in his Word is seen throughout each picture (my favorite is Monica looking up at you), each child’s face, every one of Emmy’s smiles, and as you recount the events. May each one of these 13 marriages be filled with this same Joy of the Lord.
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/27 at 1:48 AM
2009/07/27
Kim Hackney
hackney@suddenlink.net | 74.196.235.220
How well written Bub… I felt as if I were there. When you first mentioned the soccer stadium…. I thought before you mentioned it…. God brought you back to one of your great loves while you are continually serving. What a beautiful bride you have! We are praying for you ALL daily…. the team and the people you serve….love keeping up with you all and great pictures Kristin. Give the team our LOVE! Kim and Joel
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/27 at 6:33 AM
2009/07/27
Brenda O’Neal
boneal@gracetyler.org | 70.254.43.254
How GREAT is our God!!! As I read your blog through teary eyes and looked at precious photos showing the play by play wedding, I felt as though I were there worshipping with you! As only God can do, my radio blared Chris Tomlin’s “How Great is Our God” and I thought to myself, “YES, HE IS!!!”. Thanks for sharing and KNOW that we are praying for you each step of the way!
Hugs and prayers…
Brenda
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/27 at 8:02 AM
2009/07/27
Jason, Carrie & Bailey Bigbie
JLBigbie@Juno.com | 67.77.71.23
The photos speak for themselves as you see nothing but love and pure joy on everybody’s faces. Simply amazing and thanks so much for sharing in such terrific detail. May God continue to bless you all on this amazing journey. Congrats!
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/27 at 8:24 AM
2009/07/27
Margot Pate
mconsford@yahoo.com | 66.194.173.226
I am so greatful to the Lord that your time in Africa is full of so many blessings. My prayers are with you all.
All my love !!!!
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/27 at 12:19 PM
2009/07/27
Ann Terese Brandt
AnnT35@hotmail.com | 74.192.253.248
Never seen so many beautiful brides in one place!
Monica, I know this had to have been one of THE best days in your life.
One heart, One mind and one purpose with your husband, following the Lord.
So encouraged by the pictures, can’t imagine the feeling of being there.
Blessings, love and prayers to you!
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/27 at 12:29 PM
2009/07/27
Kaye Hinkie
vkhinkie@gmail.com | 75.23.40.14
Isaiah 52:7
How beautiful on the mountains
are the feet of those who bring good news,
who proclaim peace,
who bring good tidings,
who proclaim salvation,
who say to Zion,
“Your God reigns!”
This verse jumped into my head/heart when I saw the picture of your feet!! Thank you for loving Him enough to love those in Uganda so well!!! Thanks for allowing us to be part of this journey half way around the world because you take the time to let us “see” what’s happening. I am blessed by reading…I am honored to pray for you!!
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/27 at 2:44 PM
2009/07/27
Wanda Shaeffer
http://wshaeffer@gracetyler.org | wshaeffer@gracetyler.org | 65.41.67.204
How great it is to once again see Uganda through your eyes and through the eyes of God via the blog. To see Myles and Doug in those suits made my day! What a joy it is to see God at work in you.
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/28 at 12:50 PM
2009/07/28
Holly Patterson
pattersons99@suddenlink.net | 74.192.83.3
Congrats on the wedding, that is very awesome and too incredibly sweet!
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/28 at 5:48 PM
2009/07/28
laura gerick
lgerick@gmail.com | 74.196.234.133
wow…how wonderful… what a treat… what a blessing… to be able to witness and see through you, Gods’ work … with these posts and updates from Africa…thank you…
hugs and prayers
From Just Another 13 Couple Wedding, 2009/07/28 at 6:13 PM
July 29th, 2009 at 8:59 am editBub,
Foy and I would be honored to help with this need. Thank you so much for sharing the childrens’ specific needs with us and giving us (who are still at home but with you in spirit) the opportunity to help. Those kiddos are such a blessing to us and we’ve never even met them. You guys are a blessing to us.
I sent a note to your PCM e-mail.
July 29th, 2009 at 9:52 am editThe Hackney’s are on board for helping…The girls are excited to become sponsors. We are sorry you are not getting enough sleep…. but love reading the blogs! Love and prayers to all…Kim, Joel and girls
July 29th, 2009 at 2:14 pm editCount us in on the bath houses. I will sent a check back with Bailey. Keep up the great work! Thank you for the updates!
Shalom,
Ambush
July 29th, 2009 at 7:20 pm editThe Nicks are praying for you all. Thank you for sharing God’s love with these beautiful people and thank you for the blogs. We are excited to hear more,more,more. . . into eternity!
Love, Todd, Steph, Lucas, Jackson, Lucy and Kate
July 30th, 2009 at 9:18 pm editHey guys! The Hardings are praying for each of you. Thanks for all you are doing. We are REALLY enjoying reading the daily reports and seeing the wonderful pictures (Kelsey has already printed out several
Love, Ken, Steph, Kelsey, Brooke, and Andie